Paul M. Ahlin

May 23, 2020

Paul M. Ahlin

Paul M. Ahlin – of Woburn, unexpectedly May 23rd at the age of fifty-eight. Devoted husband of Lisa (O’Brien) Ahlin for 30 wonderful years. Cherished father of Michael, Alyssa and Bryan Ahlin. Beloved son of Kenneth and Dorothy Ahlin of Melrose, MA. Loving brother of Kenneth Ahlin, his wife Jennifer of South Carolina and Dennis Ahlin, his wife Jennifer of Wilmington, MA. Beloved son-in-law of Paul and Judy O’Brien of Woburn, MA.  Loving brother-in-law of William O’Brien and Steven O’Brien and Donna Fernandez  all of Woburn. Also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Due to the current situation we are experiencing with the Corona Virus, arrangements are private at this time and under the direction of the Lynch-Cantillon Funeral home, 263 Main Street, Woburn.

Paul M. Ahlin, 58 of Woburn, passed away suddenly Saturday, May 23rd at his family beach home surrounded by his loving family.

Paul was raised in Melrose. He was the son of Kenneth and Dorothy Ahlin still of Melrose.

Paul graduated from Melrose High School in 1979 where he established many lifelong friends.  He went on to attend Wentworth Institute of Technology earning his degree in Building Construction Technology.

Early in his career Paul worked part-time construction while holding a full-time position at Coca-Cola in Needham. In 2005, Paul achieved his lifelong dream of establishing his own construction company; PMA Builders, Inc.  He built countless houses, additions, decks, and remodels. He even built giant wooden letters to represent Alyssa’s sorority at UMASS Amherst. His work ethic was incredible. He made many friends within his industry as well as with his customers. Paul took great pride in all his projects. It wasn’t just a job to Paul. He strived to leave every customer happy, satisfied and overjoyed with the end result.

In 1987, Paul met Lisa in Killington, VT.  It was love at first sight.  They married in May of 1990 and have been inseparable for 33 years. Paul was deeply devoted to his family and was the proud father of three beautiful children; Michael, Alyssa and Bryan. His family was always first and foremost. He always had a full house at their vacation homes in Maine and Hampton beach, both of which were built by Paul. However, his best memories were spending time by his backyard pool and cooking on the grill with family and friends.

Paul and Lisa loved to travel. They were fortunate to visit many amazing places. Aruba, Turks and Caicos, Jamaica, Mexico, Costa Rica, Bermuda and so many more. Catalina Island was one of Paul’s favorite vacations because he was able to drive a golf cart around all day.

Paul loved to golf, especially when he was able to play with his son Michael. He also loved to play hockey and softball. During the winters, he loved getting together with the guys to go snowmobiling in Canada, Maine and New Hampshire. In the summer, he enjoyed riding his jet-skis on the lake.

Paul loved to help his community. He coached Woburn Little League for many years as well as Woburn Recreational Basketball.  You could always count on Paul to volunteer to operate the clock at the Woburn Travel Basketball games. He never missed one of Bryan’s high school basketball games. Most recently, he built the snack shack at Gonsalves Park.  His dedication to Woburn was endless.

Paul really cared for people and was always willing to help. He truly cherished his friendships and continued to make new friendships wherever he would go. Paul is remembered for his love of his family, his friends, his work, his fun-loving personality and his amazing blue eyes and smile.  

Along with his wife Lisa, Paul is survived by his 3 beautiful children, Michael, Alyssa and Bryan Ahlin. Beloved son of Kenneth and Dorothy Ahlin of Melrose, MA. Loving brother of Kenneth Ahlin, his wife Jennifer of South Carolina and Dennis Ahlin, his wife Jennifer of Wilmington, MA. Beloved son-in-law of Paul and Judy O’Brien of Woburn, MA.  Loving brother-in-law of William O’Brien and Steven O’Brien and Donna Fernandez all of Woburn. Also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Due to the current situation we are experiencing with the Corona Virus, arrangements are private at this time and under the direction of the Lynch-Cantillon Funeral home, 263 Main Street, Woburn. A celebration of life will be held at a later date and at that time a party will be thrown in typical Paul fashion with cold beers, chicken wings and family and friends sharing wonderful memories of Paul. As a remembrance, and in lieu of flowers, donations may be made in honor of Paul to Woburn Recreational Basketball, 10 Common St. City Hall, Woburn, Ma 01801 c/o Rory Lindstrom or Woburn Little League, PO Box 140, Woburn, Ma 01801 c/o Mark Cavicchi

Due to the current situation we are experiencing with the Corona Virus, arrangements are private at this time and under the direction of the Lynch-Cantillon Funeral home, 263 Main Street, Woburn.

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  1. John J. Mclean

    May God Bless you Lisa, Mike, Alyssa and Bryan and may Paul RIP as he was indeed a wonderful father, husband and friend.

  2. Krzysztof Becla

    The Becla family would like to leave our condolences to the Ahlin family. We were fortunate to meet Paul many years ago and owe him a deal of gratitude for the help he gave us as new home owners. He was always genuine, positive and willing to help. I really appreciate that about him and am glad to have met him. We will miss him and will pray for the Ahlin family and his friends.

  3. Anthony and Lisa Correia

    We are so very sad and devastated by Paul’s passing. He was an amazing person – that was easy to see. We are fortunate to have known him. Lisa, every time we pass McGuirk’s, we think of a night filled with good music, great vibes, and lots of laughter. Being around the two of you is chicken soup for the soul. He will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Ahlin and O’Brien family. We are thinking of you all. Love Anthony and Lisa Correia

  4. Grace Chisholm

    To Lisa, Alyssa, Michael & Bryan: I’ve been trying to come up with the perfect words to express how sorry I am, but those words simply don’t exist. The loss that your family experienced is unfair in so many ways. I think I speak for everyone when I say that the Ahlin family has a bond like no other. While these days may feel dark and the light at the end of the tunnel may seem so far away, I hope you continue to keep Paul alive in the stories you tell and the memories you share. I believe, from the bottom of my heart, that he is with you everyday whether you feel him or not. I did not have the luxury of getting to know Paul personally, but the time I’ve spent with the rest of your family has been overpowered with love. I hope as you read these notes from all of your loved ones, that his memory shines through each one. The Ahlin bond is unbreakable, even from something as catastrophic as this. I love you all so much, and my heart is broken for you. Keep looking for signs, he’s sending them to you all in one way or another. Love always, Grace Chisholm

  5. I’m so sorry to hear about Paul’s passing. I hope he knew how much appreciation and respect I had for him. He did so much for me while I worked with him. I have thought of him often and I have so much to attribute to the time I spent with him. My condolences go out to the Ahlin family. I’m so sorry for your loss

  6. Lynne Barletta

    We are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express our sorrow. Please know that you are in all our prayers.

    The Barlettas – Bill & Lynne

  7. Paul, it was an honor to be in you presence, laugh with you, and to be your friend. Today, I had the ultimate honor of escorting you home. We will meet again someday. In Nordic lore, all warriors go to a large hall called Valhalla. Save me a seat next to you so we can laugh again together.

    Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, and Bryan, thank you for trusting me with Big A. Words can’t describe what Paul meant to all of us who knew him. All I can say is that I’m sorry and will always be here for all of you because that’s what Paul would say and do. He truly was larger than life.

    Vaya con Dios, my friend,

    Tim Donovan

  8. Lisa and Family – We are saddened to hear of Paul’s passing, since we heard about it Sunday we have not stopped thinking about all of you during this time. Prayers to you all. God Bless the O’Brien and Ahlin Family. God bless the “Big A”. RIP Paul!

    Love – Ken & Joanne Ryan, Jr

  9. Bill Spirito Jr

    So sorry to hear of Paul’s untimely passing! He was a great guy. I worked with Paul at Coca-Cola and helped him on several of his construction projects. He was incredibly hardworking and a great husband and dad. Sadly the last time I saw Paul was a couple years ago at one of our friend’s from Cone’s wake. Gonna miss him. Way too young. My deepest condolences to Lisa and his children and his entire family. Bill S

  10. Joe and Jen Chiodo

    Lisa and family,

    We are so sorry for your loss. We always seemed to sit near you at the high school basketball games and we’d get a kick out of Paul and how enthusiastic he was about the games. We are heartbroken for you and the kids. May his memory help you through this difficult time.

  11. David ,Elaine, David Jr and Johnny Screnci

    Lisa and family, our heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Paul was a great man who was taken way to soon. Always remember the good times. Paul will never be replaced but always remembered.

  12. Brenda and family,
    I am so sorry for the passing of your brother. I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers
    -Ken

  13. Lisa, Michael, Alyssa & Brian,
    Our hearts are broken for you.
    We were so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing.
    Please know that you are in our prayers.
    Pete, Betty & Chris Krawec

  14. Robert Dupont

    Lisa Michael alissa Bryan so sorry about your husband/dad he was the greatest man anyone could ever have meet you guys meant the world to him I just don’t understand why God would take such a great father friend companion from us all in my heart God needed an addition to his castle and Paul was the only one who could do it my heart felt sorrow love Bob lisa

  15. I was really bummed out to hear of Paul’s passing. Great guy I didnt get to see much and missed at our last reunion.
    RIP Paul, You’ll be missed
    JV

  16. Paul took me under his wing after I graduated high school and I worked summers with him. He taught me so much about the trades and how important it was to treat customers with respect and to take great care on their projects. He also taught me how to treat follow contractors and how important it was to lean on each other. I am so fortunate to have had the privilege to have that time with Paul. He was good friends with my father Bob and they had some great years together building. They were very close and Paul was so kind to reach out when my father passed a few years back. I hope him and my father are together and busting on each other like they use to.

    To Lisa and family. Paul gave so much and took so little and his impact on my life and others ripples across so many. My career today is testament to his teachings. Our thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. Thank you for sharing him with the world.

  17. Richard Gorham

    Lisa, kids & extended family:

    Our deepest condolences on Paul’s premature passing. We hope the love of family and friends helps provide strength to endure this most difficult period.

    Rich & Noreen Gorham

  18. Jamie Albertian

    Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, and Brian,

    I’m deeply sorry for the loss of your husband and father. Paul had such a positive outlook and touched so many lives. I’m heartbroken that you’re going through this. Please know and feel the love that surrounds you all today and always.

    With caring thoughts,
    Jamie

  19. The Shannon Family

    Dear Lisa
    Please accept our deepest sympathies for the loss of your husband Paul. Words may not sufficiently express the sorrow we all feel for you at this time. I am so sorry to hear the news of his passing and I can’t even imagine after 30 years together what you and your kids are going through. My thoughts are with you during this painful time, I am truly sorry and I hope you feel the love that surrounds you at this time. He was a happy go lucky guy always smiling. Once again my heart goes out to you and the kids at this time.
    With heartfelt condolences,
    Denise , Steve, Brian and Kevin Shannon

  20. Thomas Hurley

    My Heart Goes Out 💔😪
    To Paul’s family & Children
    Paul was a
    Great Man
    Happy that I got to know him in this lifetime
    My Prayers are with you

  21. Diane Harrises - Hampton, NH

    Lisa, Steven, Donna, and family,
    I am so sorry to hear about Paul’s passing. Thoughts, prayers, and love to all in this time. May the memories sustain you. ❤️

  22. Dear Lisa and family, my most sincere condolences at this time. I only knew Paul for a few years from softball. He was an exceptional individual on and off the diamond. I like him from day one. I will miss him dearly.
    I know he was a hard working person and loved his family.
    Our softball league is still in shock as well. On behalf of myself and the Men’s Senior Softball League, our hearts go out to all who loved him throughout his abbreviated life. RIP Paul.
    in

  23. Woburn Recreation Basketball

    Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, and Brian we are so very sorry for your loss. Paul was a great man and a big supporter of the Woburn Basketball Program. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time.

  24. David Surrette

    Lisa, Michael, Alyssa and Brian, I am so sorry for the loss of Paul. Since hearing about it Saturday morning I haven’t been able to stop thinking of you and your family.
    He was a great guy who set his goals and knew just how to achieve them.
    He was a dedicated family man which was more than obvious to anyone who spent any amount of time with him.
    He will be deeply missed. I wish all of you to stay strong and if there is anything at all you need please feel free to reach out.

    Dave, Cheryl, Caroline, Jonathan and Hannah

  25. Ann (Fernandes) Giso

    To the entire Ahlin family,
    and to Mr. and Mrs. Ahlin, Kenny, Brenda and Dennis. Please accept my sincere condolences. Peace and happy memories always.

  26. Kathryn Albertian

    Dear Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, Bryan
    No words can be said what are mind and hearts remember. Paul gave something beautiful to this world himself, he was a gentleman and truly gentle
    filled with kindness and love for his wife children and entire family. How grateful to call Paul my cousin. My thoughts are with all who loved Paul in a
    special way.
    With deepest sympathy
    Kathy

  27. Krissy n David George

    Lisa and family we are so sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers for you all. Xo

  28. Johnny Santarpio

    Dear Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, and Bryan, we are deeply saddened by your devastating and unexpected loss.

    Our family is beyond thankful for all of the beautiful and fond memories Paul shared with us. With that beaming smile, comforting hug, and hearty laugh, he always made us and our children feel like part of the family.

    Paul, the manner in which you lived your life with integrity and zest is a testament to us all.

    To the extended Ahlin and O’Brien families, our deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences. We pray that you can find peace in your hearts and minds in the days ahead.

    Love, Johnny, Colleen, Chloe, and Vincent

  29. Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, Bryan and the extended O’Brien and Ahlin family, I am so sorry for your loss. It was way too soon.
    From when I first met Paul I could tell he was great guy and a mature responsible adult with goals and ambitions in life . He was a hard worker who earned everything he got in life. But not only was he a hard worker but had a perfect work-life balance. Always finding quality time to spend with his family and be there for them. It was like he was from a different era with his strive to love, respect and provide for his family.

    My daughter is fourteen and just starting the dating scene. My hope is when she eventually finds a man to marry that he will share the same values and ethics as Paul. Then I can be at ease as a father knowing my daughter will truly be cared for.

  30. Donnie & Judy Richard

    So sad to hear about Paul, worked with him at Coca Cola and he did renovations at our house also. We want his family to know they are in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our deepest sympathy & we’ll always remember Paul’s smile.

  31. Woburn little league

    To Lisa, Michael, Alyssa and Bryan, We are so sorry for your loss. Paul will forever be a friend of Woburn Little League
    Thoughts and prayers to you all and we are here for you.
    WLL Board of Directors

  32. Mark and Eileen Cavicchi

    Lisa, Michael,Alyssa and Bryan we are so sorry to hear about Paul’s passing. The Ahlin family was one of the first families Eileen and I met through little league. Paul was a great person and someone who we can say was a good friend. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all and to the entire family. If there is anything we can do please ask. RIP Paul. Mark and Eileen cavicchi

  33. Tommy and Donna Skeffington

    Lisa,Michael,Alyssa,and Bryan
    We are devastated by the sudden passing of Paul. Rest In Peace our friend, you are a great friend and a great family man! We will miss you.

  34. Michael and Anna Colombo

    Lisa and family, there are really no words. We are heartbroken for you and your family. He was taken much too soon. Our deepest condolences to you and the entire family for your devastating loss.

  35. Anthony Colombo

    Bryan,
    I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I’m thinking of you and your entire family. I’m here if you need anything.

  36. Bill & Lori Mogauro

    Lisa & Family:

    We are still devastated and in shock hearing about Paul. He was genuine, generous and as down-to-earth as they come. He made everyone he met feel special & welcome and really knew how to light up a room. The entire Mogauro family feel blessed to have gotten to know him and will miss him tremendously.

    Our sincerest condolences to you and your family, Lisa. I just can’t find the words to say how sorry I am. Stay strong and find solace in family and friends who will always love you guys.

    Bill & Lori Mogauro

  37. Arthur McKean

    Lisa,
    Our deepest sympathies are with you and your entire family. Doreen and I are deeply saddened and devastated at Paul’s passing . Paul was such an amazing person. So proud to have known him and to have called him a friend. He will be missed tremendously by all. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Arthur and Doreen McKean

  38. Jayne Sheehan

    Words can not express the devastation and broken heart at the loss of cousin Paul. He truly was the epitome of an all around great guy. He loved his family with all his being. He had the eyes and smile that would light up a room. It was always a great time in his presence. He was humble and genuine. My heart goes out to his beautiful wife, the love of his life, Lisa and to his children Michael, Alyssa, and Bryan, as well as, the O’Brien and Ahlin families. The world has lost one of the best. Rest in Peace Paul.

  39. Lynne Spence, Pittsfield VT

    Dear Brenda and the entire Ahlin Family,

    I am very saddened by the news of Paul’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your family during this sorrowful time.

  40. Bethany MacNicholl

    Lisa, Aly, & Bryan:
    No words can express how sorry we are to hear about Paul. We are so very sorry and so wish we could take the pain away. Such a tragic loss. Please know we are thinking of you all.

    With our deepest sympathies,
    Bethany (Aptt) & Jason MacNicholl

  41. Completely and totally devastated. “Class Act” doesn’t begin to describe the Big A. He oozed class. You will be missed terribly my friend. RIP.

  42. Franny & Matt

    Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, and Brian our hearts are broken. Paul was the best husband and best father you could ever ask for. He was also the best of the best friends. Matt is broken. he feels like he not only lost his cousin but his brother as well. Paul will be forever in our hearts. May he Rest In Peace. We love you all.

  43. Tim and Franca Donovan

    Paul, you were an amazing husband, a fantastic father, and a wonderful friend. The memories will last forever. Rest Easy Big “A” and until we meet again our friend.

    Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, and Bryan we are deeply saddened and our heartfelt condolences for your tremendous loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you today and everyday from here on in.

    To the extended OBrien and Ahlin families, we are sorry for the loss of such a strong presence within your respective families.

    Tim and Franca Donovan

  44. Jackie Albertian

    My heart is heavy. I am at a loss for words, so I find myself listening to music and playing one song over again… Smile by Pearl Jam. It reminds me to do just that … smile and to try and find peace with it and to think of the good memories we had doing this project. It’s hard because I walk the inside or outside of my house and all I see is you. I see your truck out front, I see you sitting in there having your coffee and cigar and making calls. I hear your voice in my head guiding me to the next right decision and all I want to do is give you a hug and say thanks for everything. I know you know how much it meant to me but at the same token I selfishly feel like a part of me is missing now because we can’t sit back and reflect on all we did over the past 8 months. I got the last laugh with the building inspector like we talked about on Thursday afternoon – passed the inspection!! At almost 38 years old, I guess by now I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone, you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. You had a larger than life presence and you took each role seriously and gave it all you had with your huge heart, love, smile and bright blue eyes! I’ll do my best to try and find some peace with everything and to Lisa, Michael, Alyssa, Brian – you guys are the first and last thing I think of these days. You will be in my family’s prayers. RIP Paul – The Albertian Family of Dracut MA Shannon, Jackie, Arya and Kaden (A.K.A. “T”)

  45. Mark DeCroteau

    To the entire Ahlin family- Please accept my sincere condolences.
    I worked with Paul many years ago both in construction and at the Farm Stand deli in Saugus. – Many fond memories come to mind- his great sense of humor – great guy.
    May these words somehow offer support and comfort during this time.

    Sincerely,
    Mark DeCroteau and Family
    Melrose

  46. Peter J Martin

    June and I are heartbroken over Paul’s sudden and unexpected death. We are thinking about you all and offer our prayers to the Lord for your strength and peace in this tragic time. Pete and June Martin, Hampton, NH

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